SRSLY? 
I was a HUGE Delena shipper and wanted them ALWAYS to be together until I saw that Delena are going to have sex after Elena broke up with Stefan! 
I KNOW what may come from you now: Feelings towards Stefan never had the same strength like in the past and Delena have a past and blah blah blah.. Yes, that may be true BUT I just wanted to see scenes between Delena like we had them between Stelena! I loved that on Stelena! They had these moments where they just looked at eachother and knew they can trust eachother and to build on eachother!
The wild and ONLY sex scenes they are sharing are just telling me that they waited for so long to come together just for the sexual tention between them and that’s just a huge big fat NO! Yes, sex is natural and a wonderful thing and ouw no I am anything but prude (believe me, aks my friends or read my Tumblr *LoL* x’D) but if they build up anything on having sex just because they waited until coming together about the reason that Elena became a vampire and is sired now to Damon and everything is “hightened” I’m really asking myself if they would have had a different start if Elena wouldn’t be sired to Damon and if those feelings without being sired to Damon would be strong enough to even have a relation ship!
So regarding to the sex scenes and the amount of sex they are having in the start of their relationship, the writers are totally building their relationship on sex and desire and this bond! And I just think that isn’t right!
For ME Delena as a pairing and ship needs to be more than just sex and attraction so in other words the writers of TVD totally ruined Delena for me! 
But that doesn’t mean that I will go and ship Stelena! Yes, I prefer Stelena of being together and everything that involved positive and also negative things they were sharing but in the end both brothers made things that I am not okay with when it comes to Elena, other people and stuff like that so I am still not all too sure about it who Elena should be with! 
Oh and last but certainly not least: I think the Delena sex scenes are too much! Here the writers really overexaggerate! MUCH! 

Okay.. These are my 5 cents to Stelena/Delena.. Please tell me your thoughts so come to my askbox and drop me a line :)